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我从没想过自己会陷入这种境地——但我遇到了一个自己无法突破的障碍。我在这里寻求帮助、建议、想法——任何实际的方法，以便摆脱流浪街头，重新回到稳定的生活中。在过去的一年里，我失去了我的母亲（癌症）、祖母（年老），并经历了一次离婚。我陷入了抑郁，最终住在车里，几乎无法正常生活。但我没有一蹶不振。通过治疗、氯胺酮治疗，以及构建我自己的AI辅助心理健康工具（ChatGPT真的救了我），我变得更加坚强、健康，准备重建。我的心理健康现在很稳定——我已经做了内心的工作。这是我的情况：我住在车里，有能力时会住在便宜的汽车旅馆里。我全职开Lyft/Uber，但我的车需要换新轮胎，续保险，还有一笔车款即将到期——没有这些，我就无法工作。轮胎400美元，保险200美元，车款290美元... 我有一台台式电脑，但没有稳定的地方安置它并工作。我很快就要回学校学习计算机科学，目标是从事AI/ML工作，但我需要在学生资助或遗产（都延迟了）到来之前生存下去。这是我的问题：如果是你，你会怎么做来打破这个循环？我怎样才能建立一个稳定的基础，回到编程/自由职业，停止仅仅为了生存而生存？我愿意工作。我知道通过做自由职业技术工作，我可以赚到3-4倍的收入，但我不能在车里做这些。我考虑过租办公空间，找室友，甚至设立一个GoFundMe，但我需要可行的想法，而不仅仅是希望。我该如何摆脱这种境况？对于像我这样有技能、有动力但没有资源的人，有什么计划、工作或选择？任何建议、想法或帮助你能给的——我都洗耳恭听。我已经重建了我的心智。现在我只需要一个稳定的地方来重建我的生活。感觉自己不断像陷入流沙，而救援的绳索又离我有5英寸那么远，这很艰难。我在南犹他州（圣乔治），愿意搬到SLC地区或拉斯维加斯，我只是需要为了我的孩子们留在南犹他州周围4小时的半径内。

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I never thought I’d be here—but I’ve hit a wall I can’t break through alone. I’m asking for help, advice, ideas—anything practical—to get off the streets and back into stability.In the last year, I lost my mother (cancer), my grandmother (old age), and went through a divorce. I spiraled into depression, ended up living out of my car, barely functioning.But I didn’t stay down. Through therapy, ketamine treatment, and building my own AI-assisted mental health tools (ChatGPT literally saved me), I’ve come out stronger, healthier, and ready to rebuild. My mental health is solid now—I’ve done the inner work.Here’s my situation:I’m living in my car, staying in cheap motels when I can afford it.I drive Lyft/Uber full-time, but my car needs new tires, insurance renewal, and a payment due—without it, I can’t work. $400 for tires, $200 for insurance, $290 for car payment..I have a desktop computer but nowhere stable to set it up and work.I’m going back to school soon for computer science, aiming for AI/ML work, but I need to survive until student aid or inheritance (both delayed) arrives.Here’s my question: What would YOU do in my situation to break the cycle? How can I create a stable base, get back to programming/freelancing, and stop just surviving?I’m willing to work. I know I can earn 3-4x more doing freelance tech, but I can’t do that from a car.I’ve thought about renting office space, finding roommates, even setting up a GoFundMe, but I need actionable ideas, not just hope.How do I climb out of this? What programs, jobs, or options are out there for someone like me who’s got skills, drive, but no resources?Any advice, ideas, or help you can give—I’m all ears. I’ve rebuilt my mind. Now I just need a stable place to rebuild my life. It's hard feeling constantly like I'm in quick sand and the rope is 5 inches too far away.I'm in Southern Utah (St George), willing to relocate to SLC area or Las Vegas, I just need to stay local for my kids...4 hour radius from southern Utah.

请教HN：在重建我的心理健康后，我如何摆脱无家可归的境地？