问HN:我应该冒险吗?
我22岁,刚刚毕业,最近在一家初创公司找到了我的第一份全职工作。但我感到很挣扎:我不喜欢我的工作,创始人对我和团队的态度让我觉得不被尊重,士气低落。公司的文化并不是我所期待的,我发现自己很难保持动力。
我一直想尝试自己创业,我的家人也建议我现在是最佳时机——没有经济负担,没有抚养责任,而且我和家人住在一起,有他们的支持。我的家人也乐意资助我的创业项目。但我心里有些犹豫:
- 如果我的创业项目失败,我会“浪费”一到两年,影响我的职业前景吗?
- 是继续坚持,先积累更多经验更好,还是在有安全网的情况下果断跳出去?我的安全网大约只能维持一年半到两年。
对于那些经历过类似情况的人——离开一份不喜欢的工作去追求自己的事业——你们是怎么做的?你们希望自己做过哪些不同的选择?
对于如何做出这个决定,或者你们的经历是怎样的,任何建议都将非常感激。
附注:我目前的工作环境真的让人沮丧,早上起床去上班都很挣扎,我对创始人感到害怕,也不敢坦诚相待。
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I’m 22, a new grad, and recently joined a startup as my first full-time job. I’m struggling: I don’t like my work, and the founder’s attitude towards me and the team feels disrespectful and demotivating. The culture isn’t what I hoped for, and I’m finding it hard to stay motivated.<p>I’ve always wanted to try building something of my own, and my family advises me that now is the best time—no financial burdens, no dependents, and I live at home with family support. My family is also happy to fund my ventures. But I’m doubtful:<p>- Will I “waste” a year or two and hurt my career prospects if my ventures don't work out?
- Is it better to stick it out and get more experience first, or just take the leap while I have the safety net? My safety net would essentially last only upto a year and a half or two years.<p>For those who’ve been in a similar situation—leaving a job you dislike to start something on your own—what did you do? What do you wish you’d done differently?
Any advice on making this decision, or about how it turned out for you, would be really appreciated.<p>Footnote: My current work env is really demoralizing, like struggling to wake up in the morning to go in, and I am scared of my founder and being transparent.