问HN:我卖掉了公司,父母去世了——感到迷茫。接下来该怎么办?
我29岁。刚刚卖掉了我的公司,获得了低七位数的赔偿——这是我多年来努力追求的目标。第二天,我的剩余亲人去世了。几年前,我的另一个亲人已经去世。现在,29岁的我,父母都不在了。由于继承的财产(因为他们去世时年纪较轻,远超我的预期),加上我公司出售的收入,我可能再也不需要担心金钱问题了。
在职业上,这是我一生中最大的成就。在个人生活中,这是我最大的损失。我对与父母的关系没有任何遗憾。他们是了不起的人,我们的关系也非常美好。我对此深感感激。但我也感到非常孤独,有些迷失。我不知道接下来该怎么做——无论是我的时间、精力,还是我的生活。
如果有人经历过类似的事情——即使没有,我也非常希望能听到你们的想法或建议。当你感觉同时经历了奇怪的高峰和低谷时,如何去弄清楚接下来该做什么呢?
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I'm 29. I just sold my company and received a low 7-figure payout — something I had worked towards for years. The next day, my remaining parent died. My other parent had already passed away a few years ago. Now, at 29, both my parents are gone. Because of the inheritance (which is larger than I expected due to how young they passed), combined with my company sale, I will likely never have to worry about money again.<p>Professionally, this was the greatest achievement of my life. Personally, this is the greatest loss. I have absolutely zero regrets about my relationship with my parents. They were amazing people, and we had an amazing relationship. I'm deeply grateful for that. I'm grateful, but I also feel very alone and a little lost. I’m not sure what to do next — with my time, my energy, or even with my life.<p>If anyone has been through something similar — or even if you haven’t — I'd appreciate any thoughts or advice. How do you figure out what's next when it feels like you’ve hit a strange high and low at the same time?