问HN：在2026年如何接触新朋友？
我最近在《卫报》上读到一篇文章，讨论了与陌生人进行随意交谈变得越来越少见。文章认为，智能手机和疫情后的习惯使人们在日常场合中更不愿意与陌生人互动。
这让我思考自己的情况。我很幸运通过大学和工作认识了许多优秀的人，在这些环境中我通常感到与人交谈很自在。但在非结构化的场合，情况就大不相同了。我住在瑞典，在公共场合接触陌生人在文化上就已经不太常见。如果你不是在这里长大的，也没有建立起社交圈，这会显得更加困难。公共空间往往感觉“封闭”。人们很礼貌，但往往更倾向于保持距离。
因此，我很好奇其他人今天是如何处理这个问题的。在2026年，你们如何在工作或学校之外结识新朋友？你们是否会在公共场合主动与陌生人开始交谈，如果会的话，是怎么做的？有没有哪些环境更适合这种交流？对于生活在更为内敛文化（如斯堪的纳维亚）的朋友们，你们有哪些有效的策略？我很想听听其他人的经验。
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i recently read an article in the guardian about how casual conversations with strangers are becoming increasingly rare. the piece argued that smartphones and post-pandemic habits have made people less likely to interact with strangers in everyday places.<p>this made me think about my own situation. i have been fortunate to meet many great people through university and work, and i generally feel comfortable talking with people in those environments. but outside of structured settings it is a different story. i live in sweden, where approaching strangers in public is already culturally uncommon. it can feel even harder if you did not grow up here and do not already have established social circles. public spaces often feel socially “closed”. people are polite but tend to keep to themselves.<p>so i am curious how others approach this today. how do you meet new people outside of work or school in 2026? do you ever start conversations with strangers in public, and if so how? are there environments where this works better than others? for people living in more reserved cultures (like scandinavia), what strategies have worked for you? would love to hear what has worked for others.<p>:o)