请问HN：分析信用卡收据以证明某人没有购买酒精饮料
为什么？显然，我被指控是个酒鬼，这让我感到恼火，因为我并不喝酒。如果我觉得别人会认为我不喝酒很失礼，我可以喝酒，但我上一次这样做是在2014年，而在那之前的最后一次可能是在2009年之前。我并不太喜欢喝酒，我的父母都是酒鬼，所以我觉得这种指控比一般人想象的更具侮辱性。
关于为什么人们会认为我是酒鬼的背景：我有一个严重自闭症和发育障碍的儿子，我们相当确定他还有多动症，而我就是唯一照顾他的人（现在我得到了政府的帮助来照看他，但我仍然常常需要从早上7点到晚上10点照看他，如果他晚上兴奋得醒来，想在房间里跑来跑去大喊几个小时，我也得照顾他），所以我大部分时间都非常疲惫。此外，我还有一些因过度劳累而导致的健康问题，这使得我走路时有时会感到疼痛。
所以我理解为什么有人会认为我是酒鬼。
关于这件事情让我心情激动的背景：指控我的人是他的学校，他们知道我是他唯一的照顾者，除了政府提供的帮助。这是因为几周前发生的一起事件，如果当时有车经过，他在我照看下可能会在街上遇到麻烦（如果你想知道更多，我可以详细描述，但这会很长）。
他们决定做一个报告，声称我在醉酒的情况下抱起了他。报告中充满了半真半假的内容，还有一些潜在的谎言，以及对我醉酒的侮辱。不仅如此，他们还声称在当地的火车站便利店看到我喝啤酒。
当我说你们搞错了，我不喝酒时，他们坚持自己的说法，并不愿意在这个问题上道歉。当我的前妻说“在布莱恩身上所有的问题中，喝酒并不是其中之一”时，他们依然坚持自己的立场。
我到目前为止所做的事情：我从我的医生那里获得了一份公证的医学声明，说明我的健康问题可能导致人们认为我现在看起来像个酒鬼，并且他从未在我的血液样本和其他实验室检查中看到任何饮酒问题的迹象。与此相关的所有医疗问卷声明中，他也表示我不喝酒。
我还获得了便利店工作人员的声明，他们表示我从未在他们那里购买过任何酒精饮料，我总是购买热咖啡或星巴克的三倍浓缩咖啡罐。一个人认为学校可能把罐子误认为是啤酒，因为罐子是绿色的，但它们的形状并不像啤酒罐。
我还有来自多年来的工作同事和朋友的声明，他们表示我从未表现出对饮酒的兴趣。
所以我现在想做的是，正如我所要求的，分析我的信用卡交易记录，以证明我没有购买酒精。对于便利店的交易记录，这应该相对简单，我在他们那里的交易金额可以与他们愿意作证的交易金额相匹配。
但我在想，虽然无法看到我是否购买了酒精，我能否通过分析我的银行记录来证明我的购买历史与一个有饮酒问题的人预期的购买历史不一致？显然，我不去酒吧。
不幸的是，我没有保存购物的信用卡交易记录，所以我无法证明我从未购买过酒精，但我可以从这个月开始保存，这将显示我目前不购买酒精，并可以用来证明当前月份没有异常。
显然，这可能看起来像是过度反应，但我不喜欢被指控醉酒、被谎言所困扰，以及被监视得如此无能，以至于监视者认为一罐星巴克咖啡是啤酒。
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